Thursday, June 23, 2016

Praying for the Lord's Soldiers to come

Fam,

Where are the Lord's soldiers at? News like this saddens me and really makes me wonder where the church has gone...

Gang networks in Europe 'forcing children to steal' - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-36595175

We have to defend the defenseless. It's all of our callings, especially as men of God.

That's all,
G2

Friday, June 3, 2016

Observe, take the greatness of married couples!

- Our Marriage Advice to Newly Weds -

After being with my lovely wife for almost a decade now (i.e. ten years), I have not come across any advice that has served as the shield of our marriage, in protecting it, nor as the blood, in keeping our marriage alive and well. Everyone's marriage is different and that makes sense because everyone is different. Sure, we all see patterns among each other to help us know who we want to befriend or associate. The same can actually be said about seeing patterns of married couples. If we hang around a couple for a long time, then we start to see certain patterns of the couple. In marriage, we see the patterns amplified from the couple. A couple desiring to have a prominent marriage will pick up the positive patterns and recognize their own negative patterns that need to be purged from their marriage. This develops a subconscious will within the married couple to have a wonderful marriage and love life.

Like many little boys and girls, it is that subconscious will (or wish) to be like someone great that drives our life. This is how marriage should be. We, married couples, must envision the peak of our marriage and together climb to it. Bridging this dream with reality, find some married couples to model after. Find what you both like from a certain married couple and agree to model the same pattern because it will help you both get closer to your vision of marriage. Ask married couples with these positive patterns on how they do it and why they do it. Investigate as if you were solving society's marriage crisis and wanted to prove how marriage actually happens and why it is sacred. And as you take from these older married couples, refine the patterns with today's circumstances in preparing to pass on these golden guidelines to future married couples.

In closing, find a few trustworthy, married couples who you both want to model your marriage after and have them mentor you (both) through life.

Monday, April 4, 2016

My Opinion - Tech Start-Up Culture

Fam,

Read this - http://fortune.com/disrupted-excerpt-hubspot-startup-dan-lyons/

Here are my thoughts (yes, again...hahahaa).
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This is why I think asking questions like "What do tech companies look for in a recruit? Critical thinking, blah, blah, blah...." is garbage. It's HR protocol, not true tech folk.
Show me a GitHub link with your code along with a README.md explaining how to download and use your code. Mine doesn't have the best, but it's a start.
https://github.com/gradney


Show me your website (even if it's a blog) stating some of your thoughts (and in essence, your character).

http://g2coding.blogspot.com/

And introduce me to a Dev recruiter who knows that it's more than just asking questions like "Prove O(n) > O(n+1)"? I have great respect for BOX.net (competitor to Dropbox) because they did their start-up right - similar to the start-ups in the 1980s. Product first, then sales. The only critique I have with Google is that they actually started with their doctoral project and turned it into a company product, which is smart. But BOX.net, Microsoft, Apple, Facebook...they were smarter and started in undergraduate school (based on my understanding - no time to actually research this). Another reason why I think education is failing...and why I'm hoping to get my students to start being entrepreneurs during undergrad.

One day, I hope to start my own company. Unfortunately, my spare time is very limited during this stage of life, but I'm happy to focus on family until then.



Friday, April 1, 2016

His Priority

Jesus made us his priority. Everything he spent was to feed us, heal us, restore us, and guide us. He ate the minimum so that we could eat in satisfaction. He knew the right medicines and methods as to not waste any time or money on unnecessary medication and practices. Hence, he used basic herbs and body mechanic techniques. He educated us from his knowledge and experience which begins with counseling our souls and identity. And he shows us how to do it all leaving nothing for us in ignorance and making up in our selfish ways which is mostly, if not always, with human error.

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

Testimony - The Girl with the Pink Backpack

Fam,

There are so many lovely testimonies and my father-in-law shared this with me which I feel compelled to share with you.

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Hello,

My name is AnnaLisa and this is a story about something that Josh did 30 years ago that changed my life. I stood up and told it in front of the high school where I teach last week to amazed students who applauded enthusiastically.  It is now time, on the 30-year anniversary, to officially put it in writing and send it to the Josh McDowell Ministry to give glory to God and heartfelt thanks to Josh.

Here it is:
The Pink Backpack

By the time I was in my second semester as a freshman at UCLA, Satan had convinced me of 2 things:

  1. My life was worthless.  I had entered college a drama major with dreams of becoming an actress and soon found I was not as talented as I thought I was among so many other talented young men and women.  I also had gotten Rubella-German Measles- and was unable to go to many of my classes.  As a result, I was on academic probation and the fear of failure was overwhelming.  I no longer felt like I had a future and I thought I was a great disappointment.
  2. I was utterly alone.  I had been in a relationship with a boyfriend during which I neglected my friends, and when we broke up, I felt I had no one.  To compound that, my mother had moved out to go back to school to get her law degree and had completely abandoned us kids.  Satan made me think no one cared whether I lived or died.

So, one night I walked up to the 7th floor in my dorm and out onto the patio  I was feeling so sad and worthless and alone and my intention was to jump over the railing and end my life.  I gripped the railing and tried leaning over, but I couldn’t do it because I realized that I was afraid of heights.  So I knew I needed to come up with another plan.  This time, I decided to throw one of my legs over the railing and straddle it and just tip over at the count of three.  This way I wouldn’t have to look down.  I began counting: 1. . .2. . .then I heard someone behind me say “Wait.”  I was surprised because I hadn’t noticed anyone else on the balcony with me, so I spun around and looked, but there was no one there.  I began shaking.  Even though I wasn’t religious, I asked,  “God, is that you?”  I didn’t hear an answer.  So I got down from the railing and made God a deal.  “Okay God, if that’s you, I’ll give you 24 hours to intervene in my life, and if nothing miraculous happens, I’m going to come back up here and finish the job.”

I went to bed that night and went to class the next morning and was walking back to my dorm in a fog when I saw a large group of about 300 students gathered around a man preaching on our campus (it turns out it was Josh McDowell). I had to get past them and I was at the back of the crowd making my way around.  I wasn’t really listening to him, he was saying something about Jesus, when all of a sudden he stopped talking for a few seconds.  Then he said in a loud voice, “Hey you!”  I kept walking (of course he wasn’t talking to me).  Then he said again, “Hey you, you with the pink backpack!”  I thought, “That’s funny, I have a pink backpack.”  So I looked over at him and he was pointing at me.  Everyone was looking at me.  Then he said, “God’s been talking to you, hasn’t He?”  I started to say “No,” but then I remembered the Voice that had said ”Wait” the night before and I nodded my head.  He then told me that God had just given him a message for me and that if I would wait a few minutes with his assistant (he pointed to a lady standing near him), when he was done, he would tell me what that message was.  Of course, I was curious so I agreed.

When he finished speaking, he came over to me and said, “I don’t know what this means, but God told me to tell you that He loves you and He has a wonderful plan for your life.”  I started crying.  Then Josh asked me if I knew Jesus.  I said I knew that He was Joseph and Mary’s son and the Son of God.  I was raised Catholic and was very confused.  Then he asked if Jesus was my Lord and Savior.  I said irritably, “I don’t know what you’re talking about.”  He said, “Do you have a few minutes to talk?  I’d like to tell you about how you can have a new life with Christ.”  Well, that sounded pretty good to me- I didn’t think my current life was any good so I spent about an hour with him and his assistant that day.   The next day I met with his assistant in the cafeteria and she answered my questions.  Finally I told her I wanted to become a Christian and she asked if she could pray for me.  I thought she meant she would go home and pray for me, but she put her hand on my head and asked me to repeat after her.  At first, I was embarrassed, but when I realized what I was doing, I was so excited that I didn’t care what people thought.  I confessed that I was a sinner and thanked Jesus for dying on the cross so that I could have eternal life and I invited Him into my heart to be my Lord and Savior.  The day I accepted Christ, I was walking back to my dorm and it suddenly struck me that God wanted me to become a teacher.  After that, she connected me to a Christian group (Campus Crusade for Christ) on campus that helped me grow in my faith.


Here’s the weird twist to the story:

4 years ago Josh McDowell was invited to come and speak to the parents at our school.  I thought it would be great if I could somehow get an opportunity to briefly speak to him and simply tell him that he had had a big impact on my life and to thank him (I'd let him think I'd read his books or heard him speak).  He knew nothing about my suicide attempt, etc.   Well, I found out there would be an intermission so I came to our theater early and sat in the front row so I could make a beeline for him as soon as intermission came.  (I had also heard he was leaving abruptly after the show).  Sure enough, as soon as intermission came, I ran for his podium and quickly stammered, “I know you won’t remember me, but . . .” and he interrupted me, by pointing at me and saying, “The girl with the pink backpack.”  I was shocked and immediately choked up (I still can't recall this without getting teary).  “How did you remember me after 30 years?” I asked.  He told me that the message God had given him for me was so powerful that he had never forgotten it.  I let him know that it had saved my life.  That I had been planning on committing suicide that night and that message stopped me.  I added that as a result, I had also become a teacher and that I was a teacher there at the school and for over 26 years had impacted hundreds of lives.  I asked him if I could give him a hug and he allowed me to give him a little sideways hug. Everyone else standing there listening was awed by the encounter.

Please tell Josh thank you for me. I am eternally grateful. I am retiring from teaching this year and I feel I owe these 30 wonderful years, at least in part, to him.

Many blessings,

AnnaLisa
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I pray this testimony is a blessing to you as it is to me. May we never ignore the Voice and follow through like Josh and AnnaLisa.

God Speed,
G2

Faith - There's Always Room for Improvement

Fam,

As much as we'd like to think we're pretty good like a noble person, we still have some room for growth in our faith.

According to John 4:46-54, Jesus points out that even one who believes in Him as a healer is still not in complete faith that Jesus is the Messiah. The nobleman still insists on Jesus's physical presence to heal his son. Yet Jesus re-emphasizes that the nobleman simply needs to believe and his son will be healed. So the nobleman believes, but with some doubt as he returns to his house to hear the good news of his son's restoration. It's not until the Word of Jesus is confirmed by his household servants that the nobleman and his household completely believe in Jesus Christ.

We can compare this nobleman to the centurion in Luke 7:1-10.


How many times do we go about our days with little faith?

How funny we are in being like the nobleman sometimes instead of the centurion, hunh? Hahaha. Let's not forget who Jesus is especially in a doubtful world.

Lots of love to ya, fam, and keep up'ing your faith.

Believe Him,
G2

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Diet - Importance of Eating Healthy

Fam,

Years ago, I began my journey to improve my diet. I learned way back college, probably my senior year after returning from my internship at Eli Lilly, that I had a different diet while living on my own compared to living in the house of my parents. I even remember having a small argument with my Dad when I asked my mother to bake my chicken instead of frying it. My Dad snapped back in saying that I grew up on fried chicken and I should be grateful that my mother was cooking. I defended in saying that although fried chicken is great, I am being more conscious of my health and so should he unless he wanted to risk obtaining a chronic disease like my others in other family. And, I added that I've always been grateful for mom's cooking. She just happened to notice my preference and gave me a choice.

After graduation, I worked for Medtronic, a company that produces pacemakers, and I learned a lot more about the heart. I learned how greatly a diet and exercise can impact the heart. I learned about the vast difference of patients who received pacemakers due to either an extreme heart illness within their genes or an extreme lack of care for a healthy lifestyle. The latter reminded me of my father who I admonished while living with him. Shortly after living on my own, I found out that my Dad contracted diabetes. Well, such moments I wish I wasn't right.

After marriage, I made another grand shift in my diet. I had went for a long morning run and returned home smelling awful. Curiously, I sat in my smell and wondered what it smelled like. I reflected on what I ate over last night and dinner. Quickly I remembered and concluded that I was smelling like the bacon I ate. I was sweating bacon grease, ugh. That moment was nasty enough to have me stop eating bacon like cold turkey. My wife who enjoys eating bacon was disturbed, but she kept eating bacon.

After moving to DC, my wife and I had another major upgrade to our diet. By now she had a diet that was simiilar to mine since we didn't want to cook different meals every night. Every now and then, she'll eat what she wants when she's at a brunch or lunch. Yet, over a few years we have noticed that my wife had some aches during certain times when she ate specific foods. However, we couldn't pinpoint the exact foods or simply understand if it related to the timing of meals. So she took a food sensitivity exam. The results came back clearly after a detox program that she went through. This was probably the most drastic and sudden change to our diets.

Here is our diet below. We pray that this gives awareness and insight into your own diet.

Mine:
  • rarely eat beef (usually Danelle will get this during her lunch at work like a burger)
  • no pork (but Danelle will eat during her own time like her love for bacon)
  • rarely eat cereal unless its Danelle's GF cereal or steel cut oats
  • binge on sweets every once in a while (like I'll eat a whole box of honey buns in two hours out of a month)
Danelle's:
  • Gluten-Free (no wheat)
  • Careful of yeast (which is why Danelle rarely drinks wine now)
  • Dairy-Free (and replaced milk with almond, coconut, vanilla milk)
  • Low sugar and natural sugars (less than 12 grams on like jar of spaghetti)

Together, we eat lots of chicken, fish, ground turkey (in place of beef), and veggies. We drink lots of water.

The important part is to listen to your body react to your diet. This can be done in a few ways. Notice what is good for your body by eating after a workout. For example, lots of water feels good. I tried lots of Gatorade after a long run, but my body didn't feel good. However, my body feels good when I drink lots of Gatorade after hoops or the weight room. It's strange, but I've learned. Another is that I stopped eating pork because of running a lot. I could feel the pork in my stomach and smell it in my skin after running. That was a sign to stop eating pork. If I don't eat eggs or some kind of bread in the morning, then my energy is low for the entire day. In addition, I need to drink at least two glasses of water to feel great starting the day.

May the Spirit of God energize you on your journey of good dieting and health. God bless you, fam.

P.S. Biblically speaking, many take these verses out of context when talking about having a healthy diet: 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (the body is a temple for God). However, the biblical drives for our diet come from various various verses with admonishment of what not to eat (like blood and mold), grateful for guest meals, and what drinks and foods should be eaten in moderation (like wine and meats). I often go further in my belief with understanding that originally mankind was to eat every green plant for food and that by God was called good (in Genesis 1:29-30). Eventually, I hope to go vegan. :)